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What does it mean to be FIERCE at midlife

02.19.18

FEBRUARY 19th has arrived ~  Forever Fierce Day!  The global celebration of women at midlife.  Celebrating the vitality, power and wisdom of the midlife woman.  The topic on this beautiful FIERCE day is, what does it mean to be fierce at midlife.♥

What does it mean to be FIERCE at midlife-gcc

Beautiful right?  You know growing up, I looked up to older women and sized ’em up for inspiration and wondered what I would be like when I grew up.  Cause more than not, most of us grow up emulating the norm, right?  In my experience and totally my opinion, I would notice how older women dressed, acted, and presented themselves, but more importantly how they handled certain situations.  Preferring to silently observe, listen and take it all in before opening my mouth. Playing out scenarios in my mind (ask my daughter), is something I’ve done all my life. You just never know!  I’ve never gone with the flow and choose to beat to my own drum and certainly not be a follower.  Not in a rebel sense, (maybe?), but more because I like to make my own way.

I grew up in South Texas, in a predominant Hispanic area, and a Latina.   Meaning TRADITION is important and very much the norm.  It certainly wasn’t the norm in the late 70’s and early 80’s for Latinas to go into a predominantly male career field.  Even though my dad told me not to go to school for architectural drafting, I did.  For two reasons, my love of architecture and because I had to show him that I could.  I was one of two girls to graduate in that field. I was the first draftswoman to work in any architectural business in the Valley at the time.

Later in life, and pregnant with my second child, I insisted that my doctor help me to deliver naturally.  My first born was a C-section baby.  As I approached my due date, my mom was really starting to worry that something might go wrong.  She told me to just go in and have another C-section.  That’s all I needed to push me to want a natural delivery even more.  In 1985 it was highly unheard of that you could give birth naturally after a C-section.  (Pretty common place now but back then it wasn’t.)  My daughter was born naturally, without any difficutly!  My life has been a lot of that…”Belle’s gonna do it her way”!  And sometimes it’s worked and others it hasn’t.  You take the good with the bad- that’s life.  Most times, I was my worst critic in life.

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Fast forward to 2018

I turned 59 this month.  It’s so hard for me to believe that but I’m embracing it, wholeheartedly.


By the grace of GOD, I’ve reached this amazing point in my life that I realize that life is not a competition.  It’s not about comparing yourself to other women.  Definitely not to emulate in appearance, behavior, or mannerism.

To learn from women who are wonderful examples of grace and humility–ABSOLUTELY!  To be FIERCE?  Absolutely!  It is truly a blessing to wake up each day and I am beyond thankful for everything and everyone in my life.  Spiritually, mentally, & physically.  My understanding in life is in recognizing that the small things are really the BIG things.  Moments such as watching your kids become beautiful adults, growing old with the love of your life, sharing your wisdom and love for life with those around you.  More importantly, sharing with the younger generation. They are in need of our wisdom, confidence, guidance, and protection in this crazy world.

I’ve learned not take my life for granted, and that life is meant to be lived doing what you love and loving what you choose.  Who cares if you’re your worst critic?!

It’s beyond OKAY to be YOU!!!  Jump on a trampoline or puddles when the time comes (even at 59).  Don’t worry about who’s watching, whether you’ll get dirty, or worse.  Life is at times dirty but it’s a beautiful ride.

Be a role model, an inspiration, and share life’s beauty by way of a listening ear, a shoulder, and being a blessing to others.  This is what it means to me to be FIERCE at MIDLIFE and it’s a beautiful thing!

I’m Belle, I’m 59, my life is full and at times I feel that I’m just getting started.

What does it mean to be FIERCE at midlife-belle

Most of us have had beautifully fierce women in our lives that have helped us through our journey.  Giving credit where credit is due!  Mine came in the form of my Momma, Mother-in-law, grandmother, sisters, besties, church family, neighbors, my daughter and nieces.  THANK YOU for being so inspiring♥


Read what two beautiful FIERCE women in my life have to say!


What does it mean to be FIERCE at midlife

LISA  (60)  Giddings, Texas

To me “fierce” means unrelenting and steadfast.  Fierce in my commitment to my husband, children and family that they see and know me as not only a Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Sister or Friend but that they also see and know me as a person in my own right.  To know me, not as a perfect person, but one that tries to better myself in some way. Wanting them to see me fiercely stand up for my beliefs and values while respecting others who have a difference of opinion. To be fierce means to be strong enough to stand but flexible enough to allow others to be themselves around me. Being fierce doesn’t mean overbearing, controlling or stubborn but confident, capable and self-assured. Being fierce can be an asset to one’s character when used in the right context and with the right motives.

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KATIE (58) Rockwall, Texas

I love the LORD with a greater passion than ever before. I love my family better than ever, and I enjoy the little things in life.

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To read the stories from more amazing midlife beauties and the main campaign page, click HERE!  And don’t forget to join the Facebook REVOLUTION!  You’ll find incredible support in your journey through midlife!


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Gully Creek Cottage is a lifestyle blog authored by Belle Jaeger. Sharing DIY's, Cooking, Fashion, Woodworking and life in general! Belle writes about her latest projects, shares some of her favorite recipes, and influences via fashion and DIY's!

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Comments

  1. Suzanne Smith says

    02.19.18 at 10:46 am

    Thank you for sharing the stories of these amazing women!

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.19.18 at 4:29 pm

      Hi Suzanne and thank you so much for stopping and reading my post, you’re a doll. We must carry that FIERCE torch in unity! hugs~❤️?

      Reply
  2. jodie filogomo says

    02.19.18 at 12:00 pm

    What wonderfully fierce women you’ve showcased. It really goes to show how we are all so alike, yet sometimes so different!!
    Thanks for joining us on this Fierce Day, Belle!!
    XOXO
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.19.18 at 4:32 pm

      Thank YOU for asking me to be a part of such an amazing group and campaign. It’s not only an honor but it has been such an uplift to read the beautiful stories on such amazing women such as yourself. Hugs ❤️&? my friend!

      Reply
  3. Shelbee on the Edge says

    02.19.18 at 2:31 pm

    Belle, your story is one of the most empowering and beautiful ones I have read all day…and there is a lot of beauty and inspiration in all of these midlife stories! I am like you that I have always done things my own way and probably more often than not things did not turn out as I had hoped or planned. But you know what? Here I am on the first leg of midlife, still doing things my own way and forging my own path, and I am literally living a life that I thought was only possible in dreams. So there is a lot to be said for creating the life we want paved with our own stubbornness and our own failures. I have fumbled my way ahead and failed my way forward only to find myself in the most beautiful place I could have ever imagined! You have a beautiful soul, my friend, and I look forward to getting to know you better. I am so grateful that this Forever Fierce opportunity has connected us!

    Shelbee
    http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.19.18 at 4:36 pm

      Oh Shelbee we must be best friends! I love this beautiful “breadcrumb” you’ve left here. A footprint of new found friendship- a kindred spirit! What you said… I have fumbled my way ahead and failed my way forward only to find myself in the most beautiful place—BRILLS & profound. Love ya already FIERCE SISTER❤️?

      Reply
  4. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond says

    02.19.18 at 5:55 pm

    How lovely to meet you Belle and I’m sure you and I would get on famously. We think so alike and I turned 60 last year but feel life is still surprising me. I love how the Forever Fierce Campaign has introduced me to some wonderful women and I will be following your blog, which I would never have seen unless it was for the Campaign. Have a wonderful week and look forward to connecting.

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.19.18 at 6:56 pm

      Following you as well my friend. So happy to get the opportunity of getting to know you better Sue!
      xo

      Reply
  5. Regan says

    02.19.18 at 6:14 pm

    I love the “Belle is going to do it her way”! You walk to your drummer and everyone else just needs to step back. LOVE LOVE LOVE That my friend is a fierce spirit.

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.19.18 at 6:59 pm

      Hi Regan! Totally fierce-less or crazy some have said about me! lol Thanks for stopping by and can’t wait to learn more about you!?

      Reply
  6. Rebecca Phillips says

    02.20.18 at 8:31 am

    How much fun is this? Reading all of the wonderful stories with such graceful and strong voices. I loved your story too!!!

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.20.18 at 12:18 pm

      Thank you Rebecca, for stopping by and for your sweet words. ForeverFierce!❤️

      Reply
  7. Jonet Wooten says

    02.20.18 at 10:01 am

    Thanks for introducing us to your fabulous and fierce friends. I learn so much from the inspirational words of fellow mid lifers. A special shout out to the ladies of my former home state of Texas!

    Great job!
    Xo Jonet

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.20.18 at 12:18 pm

      Thank you Jonet! Texas all the way?

      Reply
  8. Leslie Clingan says

    02.22.18 at 12:44 pm

    Yay to you for listening to your heart and doing things Belle’s way. What a role model you are to your daughters, to all young and younger women. I live in El Paso, and my Latina students here need to see more women like you, striving for and reaching their dreams.

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.23.18 at 12:52 am

      Leslie thank you so much! You’re a sweetheart. I know all too well about my culture and the limitations some kids feel like they have. Especially the girls. If I can ever help in anyway-please holler! Thank you for stopping by & thank you for serving in that capacity. I have high respect for educators! Happy spring break~❤️

      Reply
  9. Elsie says

    02.25.18 at 12:44 am

    Love this post Belle! You are a doll and an inspiration! I love your take on life! Keep on jumping in those puddles!

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      02.25.18 at 6:20 pm

      Hi Elsie and thank you hun!!! I LOVE your style & your love of skirts!❤️

      Reply
  10. Shirley says

    03.06.18 at 3:26 pm

    Thanks!And thanks for sharing your great posts every week!

    Reply
    • gullycreekcottage says

      03.06.18 at 7:42 pm

      Thank you Shirley!?

      Reply

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